Learn to Handle Tantrums through QSCA Christy Whitman

Written by Bill November 25, 2017
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Our kids really want our attention. So when they start crying, yelling, sometimes flopping on the floor, they’ve just lost control, and we as parents don’t know exactly what to do. It can be very difficult for us to keep our composure  if our children have tantrums, thus it’s very crucial that we learn to meditate daily to stay connected with our Well-Being and we can learn this practice through qsca Christy Whitman and other qsca certified coaches in Quantum Success Coaching Academy Coach Certification Program.

When our child is in a middle of a tantrum, imagine that you’re jumping out of the plane and your parachute is not coming out, but it’s gonna get over soon.  That’s what we gonna do with a tantrum, let the child do what he wants to do, because if we get involved and giving them a lot of attention, we are not teaching them the right way to react with us— tantrums are learned behavior.  

For instance, if they want a toy in a store, just to quiet them down, you say “Here, take it”, and they’re getting what they want. That’s not the way we should respond to their tantrums.  Instead, you can stoop down to your kid’s level, get down to their eye level, and hold them firmly (not grab them) and look at them and say in a firm voice “Inappropriate”, and do what is appropriate, leave the store or put them in a space where they can do their tantrum, but they have to know that they won’t get the attention they want.   

Let our child make a choice. For instance, if they’re going to bed, they need to put on their pajamas and they need to brush their teeth.  So you can say, “What do you want first, pajamas or teeth”.   Give your child transition period. For instance, they’re playing on the playground; you say “okay, let’s go home.” But, give them five minutes warning so they get prepared, because just shifting like that is not good for the kids, they can’t do that.  Another important thing is, in the middle of a tantrum, give them a hug.

Parenting is not an easy task,  so it’s very critical that we are dedicated to our own personal growth, because the more experience we have in identifying and letting go of our own thoughts, feelings and behaviors that don’t serve us, the better we will be able to support our kids with the same. Join Life Coach Training with QSCA to understand and master the teachings of the Universal Laws to improve our own lives as individuals and raise empowered kids.

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